To entice an Aquarius man to return to you, you must first comprehend how he thinks.
He is a free spirit that is always looking for new challenges and experiences. Following a breakup, these tendencies are likely to be exacerbated, so the last thing you want to do is force him to return to his “old life” with you.
Most Aquarius guys are quick to move on from a relationship. They’re aloof by nature, making them difficult to read – even if he’s in pain, he won’t show it.
Instead, he’ll be occupying his bright mind with new projects or learning new skills, as well as amplifying his already-bustling social life.
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Why does Aquarius keep reappearing?
Aquarius does not have a long list of qualities he seeks in a spouse. All he wants is to meet someone who he can call his best friend and other half. There’s a strong possibility you and your partner were friends before you started dating. So, naturally, he returns to you because he knows that if things don’t work out, you’ll always be there for him as a buddy.
Of course, if he keeps coming back, there’s something he can’t get enough of that he won’t admit.
Aquarius is attracted to your brilliance and enjoys meaningful conversations with you, as he has undoubtedly stated in some way or another. He also admires your complexity and the fact that you have a busy life outside of your time together. He values having the freedom to be himself outside of a relationship.
Give Him Space
If your Aquarius man begins to distance himself from you, the best thing you can do is give him the space he requires. This may seem counterintuitive, especially if you want to retain him in your life, but nagging and begging him to be with you will just drive him further away.
Allow him to withdraw without explanation if he does so abruptly. Don’t try to catch up to him. Don’t ask for a resolution. Give him no control over you. A man who genuinely loves and cares for you would not abandon you. He will make it happen if he sincerely wants to be with you.
You must be honest with yourself if this relationship is right for you, even if you believe you have the proverbial spark and great chemistry. Do you really want to be with someone who abandons you without even giving you a reason? If someone is interested in you, he will make an attempt; if not, you should quit investing mental energy in him and focus on your objectives.
Confront him
If you really want to know why he’s withdrawing, you’ll have to approach him about it. He could be coping with some personal issues that he isn’t ready to share with you just yet. Before you make assumptions and worry about why you haven’t heard from him, you should definitely just ask him what’s going on.
In today’s dating society, ghosting has become the standard. Because Aquarius men are emotional failures, they want to avoid confrontation by taking the cowardly route. Have an open, calm, and honest dialogue with him, and pay attention to what he says.
If you contact him and he does not respond, he is most likely dead, kidnapped, or simply unconcerned about your sentiments. In this instance, you must provide closure for yourself. They’ve already taken the decision to withdraw from your life. It’s a tough pill to swallow, but pursuing someone who doesn’t want to be with you is pointless.
Focus on Your Own Goals
When you form a strong bond with someone and then they vanish off the face of the Earth, it can be devastating to your self-esteem. You’ve finally allowed yourself to be vulnerable in front of someone, and they chose to walk away from you without a word. That has the potential to be extremely damaging.
They didn’t even have the decency to give you closure after you opened your heart. However, you must keep in mind that some people lack the emotional maturity to accept responsibility for how their actions may influence others. Rather than waste additional time dissecting this person’s activities, you should focus your attention on your own life.
Refocus on your objectives and attempt to fill your days with bizarre experiences. Go out with your friends, take a trip, read the books you’ve been wanting to read, do the things that make your spirit dance, and take in all of life’s beauty.
Yes, being ghosted is unpleasant, and it will continue to be unpleasant for some time. However, keep in mind that you are the only one who is responsible for your happiness. You have a certain amount of time on this earth. Do you really want to waste your time erecting a wall of bitterness, hatred, and wrath when you could be savoring new experiences, possibilities, and adventures?
After a breakup, how does an Aquarius man act?
They’ve recently lost a friend and must now determine whether or not to express their grief. After breaking up with an Aquarius, it’s possible that you’ll never see those actual emotions again.
They may also require some alone time to recoup and collect their thoughts. They do, however, require room in both cases. Sure, Aquarius dislikes being alone, but they require that alone in order to figure out what their next steps should be.
Is Aquarius willing to put up a struggle in order to save the relationship? Is it finally over? Perhaps they simply need to take a pause and assess their feelings. They have a lot going on inside of them, but they must do it on their own.
On the one hand, they appreciate being in a relationship; they enjoy being the one person you can love completely. Aquarius, on the other hand, is known for desiring the wonderful independence of being single AND not being tied down to someone in particular.
Do Aquarians reconcile with their ex-partners?
Aquarius, the zodiac’s ultimate freedom seeker, usually recovers quickly after a breakup. This forward-thinking symbol is always looking ahead. You’ll rarely see them cry over an ex because they’re more logical than emotional. Even in a partnership, the water bearer of the zodiac can come across as a little too chilly and aloof for someone who seeks intimacy. This fixed sign, on the other hand, is a true believer. Although Aquarius may not appear to be the kind to worry about an ex after a breakup, there are three zodiac signs with whom Aquarius would most likely regret their split.
It’s worth noting, though, that Aquarius is one of the zodiac’s most erratic and inconsistent signs. As a result, you can expect the unexpected from them. “By pressing their aloof button, the ex may simply vanish, or Aquarius may find a cause to forgive and forget,” Robyn speculates.
Aquarius is an all-or-nothing sign when it comes to love, and it rarely enters into relationships. Few people know how to maintain their interest over time. One of the main reasons why the following three zodiac signs will always hold a special place in Aquarius’ heart is because of this. Aquarius, according to Robyn, will be the one who regrets breaking up with them the most.
What motivates a man to return?
Your ex may have broken up with you because he wanted to be single for a bit.
This happens frequently for a variety of reasons: he’s never truly been alone, his life changed (new job, new friends, etc.) and he wanted to further explore his possibilities, or he wasn’t sure he was ready to commit.
Of course, there could be a variety of other causes, and you’ll probably never know!
He probably wanted to hook up with a lot of girls and’make the most’ of being single if he wanted to play the field. Yes, it’s difficult to contemplate, but it’s likely to be the situation’s reality.
He’s returned because he’s discovered (shock, horror!) that being single and sleeping around isn’t all it’s cracked up to be.
Sure, it’s entertaining, but it’s nothing like being in a committed relationship with someone you truly care about.
Why would a man keep returning?
You may have broken up, but he isn’t yet over you. He’s still clinging to the past and hoping for something better in the future.
It’s possible that he still wishes to reconnect with you in the hopes that things will work out between you… even if they never do.
This could explain why he keeps reappearing in your life. Maybe he wants to prove to you that he’s matured and is ready to commit to you once more.