I’ve written a lot on what it’s like for two Aries to be in a relationship (comparing them to two fighting fish sharing one bowl), but for some reason I keep coming back to the issue of this sign and their mental martial art. They are powerless to stop themselves. Why do Aries enjoy fighting? That’s because they’re as scorching as my last UTI. It’s an itch they can’t seem to get rid of. And they find a variety of things to fight for or against, regardless of the purpose; fighting makes them feel alive. It runs through their veins.
So, for any Aries out there who needs some help managing their love of anger and their deep need to fuel up on it in this insane political climate, where there are plenty of reasons to get deeply upset about things you probably have little to no life experience with or knowledge about, here are a few pointers. After all, who knows what might happen if you’re not careful? That underlying itch for vengeance could cause a blood vessel to burst or give you athlete’s foot. I’m not a doctor, but I believe that holding our emotions in can lead to constipation, so here are a few strategies to avoid reacting to them without repressing them.
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Are Aries prone to arguing?
Aries is one of the most difficult zodiac signs to get along with. Those born under this sign, which is ruled by Mars, the planet of war, can be combative, tactless, and occasionally thoughtless. It’s fortunate that they’re typically entertaining enough to make the effort worthwhile.
How can you win an argument with an Aries?
You might be wondering how knowing someone’s star sign might possibly assist you win an argument. Astrology, on the other hand, examines all parts of your personality, including how you communicate with others.
You can win an argument by researching the indicators in the same way that a lawyer wins a case by conducting the appropriate research. Maybe you’re a forthright and blunt person who prefers to sort things out by yelling unflattering facts and hurling furniture. Maybe you need to win a debate with someone who despises conflict. You won’t be able to do things the way you usually do them. You’ll have to figure out how to turn it down.
My spiritual fighters are as follows: When you have something to say, look up your opponent’s astrological sign the next time you have something to say. Adapt your strategies to your target audience. Become a ninja of astrology. Let the stars be your compass.
Aries (March 21April 19): Don’t respond with anger. Or, actually, do.
People born under the sign of Aries will never acknowledge they are mistaken. However, you have an advantage because they frequently have no idea what they’re talking about. Aries frequently enters a debate with only half of the facts and expects that everyone else will agree with him.
Maintain your position and answer with facts. Do not become enraged. When an Aries stares at you as if you just killed his or her entire family, you know the battle is finished. You can also yell your arguments while entering an Aries’ space; a fight will make him or her certifiably DTF, which is a more pleasant conclusion.
Taurus (April 20May 20): Hack into the Taurus’s mind using the five senses.
There are two ways to beat a Taurus. You must first anticipate it, because a Taurus will let anything simmer for weeks before ex-f*cking-ploding, and a Taurus’s temper can really throw people off.
Second, you can control a Taurus’ mind if you can control his five senses.
A Taurus will fall into a bizarre hypnosis and forgive the entire scenario if you switch on some music, dim the lights, and start baking something in the middle of an argument.
Gemini (May 21June 20): Keep your feelings to yourself.
People born under the sign of Gemini have a big mouth. They enjoy disputing because it provides them with someone to talk to. (Not that they’re lonely, mind you.) They’ll almost certainly be texting others, live-tweeting the battle, and Googling information to back up their claims.)
The greatest method to win is to communicate exactly what you need to say in a lighthearted manner, relying on reasoning rather than emotions. Then proceed. If a Gemini is truly insane, he or she will not listen to reason, thus the only way to win is to end the conversation and go away.
A Gemini may not confess defeat, but they will be aware. You take away a Gemini’s power when you take away his or her ability to communicate.
Cancer (June 21July 22): Leave space.
It’s not difficult to win an argument with a Cancer, but it’s more difficult to do it without creating an emotional collapse.
You’ll have the impression that you’re dealing with a mental patient. Make your argument using calm and quiet comments. Use a gentle touch, but give the Cancer plenty of room. Assure Cancer of your love and devotion.
If you live together, don’t even consider using the threat of moving out as a negotiating tactic. A cancerous tumor will erupt.
Leo (July 23August 22): Play the fool.
The greatest method to beat a Leo is to make such a fool of yourself that the Leo decides he or she is too smart for the debate. If your actions appeal to the Leo’s sense of duty and leadership, he or she will feel sorry for you and help you out sort of.
Even yet, the Leo will appear to be more attractive than you. Unfortunately, “kind of” winning is the best you can hope for. It would be indecent to lose, and Leo is nothing if not classy.
Virgo (August 23September 22): Make medical recommendations.
Make your case based on real concern for Virgo’s health. A Virgo is always concerned about his or her own health as well as the wellbeing of close ones. A Virgo will readily give in if you can make your case with well-informed reasoning and logic.
Libra (September 23October 22): Be fair.
Fight as if you’re in front of a judge. Gather proof. Make a compelling case for yourself. If required, have a witness present. The scales represent Libra, which is the sign of justice. People born under this sign are the zodiac’s lawyers, and like lawyers, they won’t engage in a debate until they are certain they can win.
Scorpio (October 23November 21): If you win, you’ll never see each other again.
You could win if you really wanted to, but defeating a Scorpio will result in death. That is all there is to it.
Sagittarius (November 22December 21): Find a diversion.
Fighting a Sagittarius is like being slammed in the face with a blunt object in the middle of the night. People born under this sign aren’t known for their social graces; they consider manners to be small issues that they don’t care about.
They’re major philosophical thinkers, therefore politeness isn’t high on their priority list. The best approach to win an argument with a Sagittarius is to have a thick skin or at least pretend to have one and find a way to weave your point into one of his or her ideas.
Do it while you’re visiting a museum or something similar. As a result, the Sagittarius has something to do and doesn’t feel trapped. They’ve got more important things to do than listen to your sobs.
Capricorn (December 22January 19): Make the other person look good.
Pretend you’re in a fight with your employer, and if you win, your job is on the line. If you want to win, you’ll have to figure up a strategy to make the Capricorn appear good.
Since Capricorn believes everyone is inept, there has to be some form of personal gain for them to agree with you. Make sure to appeal to the Capricorn’s most important values: money and prestige, baby! (Bring cocaine with you.)
Aquarius (January 20February 18): Be willing to lose.
If you can show that your way is more cutting edge than theirs, you can win an argument with folks born under the sign of Aquarius. They are adamant about being trailblazers. My guy is an Aquarius, and he claims to be the first person to sport an Afro. He was born in the year 1982.
If you can’t persuade Aquarius to see your point of view as innovative, do whatever you want on your own.
They admire independent thinkers, and they may eventually come around to your point of view, but it will take time.
Pisces (February 19March 20): Have it your way.
Winning isn’t the issue; the issue is that winning is so simple that it isn’t even fun. The mentality of a Pisces is almost criminally adaptable. You may persuade folks born under the sign of Pisces to believe your concept was theirs, and they’ll look at you blankly and say, “Oh, silly me, I didn’t even remember!”
Even if they believe they are correct and you are incorrect, they would prefer to let you win rather than fight about it.
Are Aries prone to rage?
The fire sign isn’t very forgiving. Aries’ tempers can flare up in an instant, and they can become enraged if you say or do something that offends them, no matter how insignificant. They are extremely passionate, as are all of the feelings they experience. The good thing about an Aries’ rage is that it dissipates almost as quickly as it appears. They will forgive and forget quickly, and they may not realize that their venomous comments will be difficult for the listener to forget.
What are the flaws of Aries?
Aries is a stubborn sign, which can produce problems in relationships if their spouse can no longer bear their intransigence. Because Aries is an independent sign, they dislike being told what to do or bossed around.
However, one of their major flaws is their proclivity to respond rapidly with anger and fury, then quickly cool down and forget what set them off in the first place.
Is Aries a good fighter?
Aries, on the other hand, can be irritable and impatient as a result of their rebellious nature. Because of this unfettered passion, Aries are hot-tempered, thus disputes appear out of nowhere and only cease when you practically concede the matter; an Aries will never think they are wrong.
Why are Aries so uninterested in you?
Because Aries is the first solar sign in the zodiac wheel, they are naturally fiery. An Aries sun sign is a passionate individual with tremendous motivation and confidence, similar to the fire sign that they share with Sagittarius and Leo. Not to mention their need for life’s thrills. As a result, if you want to attract an Aries, you’ll have to put in a lot of effort to keep the enchantment and lunacy going.
If you make a few mistakes, though, they will neglect you to the point of excluding you from their lives. They don’t accept a few attributes in the people around them, and if you have any of them, they will ignore you or leave you alone. Some of the reasons why an Aries man or woman will neglect you are listed below.
Aries are exuberant people who thrive on the thrills of life. They want the thrills, the magic, and the speed to continue. They will begin to ignore you if you are the one who puts a halt to life’s thrills or if you are uninteresting by their standards. As previously stated, being boring does not entertain them, and as a result, you will be thrown out of their lives. If that happens, don’t be shocked.
It is well known that an Aries, like a Gemini, prefers to be a free bird. Aries are exuberant and eager to try new things. But, of course, don’t hinder them from having a good time! That’s exactly, if you try to trample on their liberties, you’ll irritate them. This will inevitably lead to their ignoring you and attempting to avoid contact with you.
Aries men and women should not be overlooked. They adore attention, especially when it comes from someone they care about. So, if you ignore their messages, calls, or even them, make sure you have a very excellent reason for doing so. Because they will not put up with inane excuses and will exclude you from their lives by ignoring you more than you ignored them!
Aries is a sign of the zodiac that has a keen eye for honest people. They expect their partners to be as transparent about themselves as they are about themselves. They will drive you out of their lives if you go waltzing some fakery that they can readily point out. Yes, they will disregard you to the point where you will regret acting false around them.
They are looking for purpose in their lives and in their relationships. Whether it’s a romantic relationship, it’s simple: they want to see if there’s something they’re gaining or benefiting from it. Similarly, they seek a purpose to maintain the person in their lives if it is a friendship or a casual acquaintance. Of course, they have no use for the individual in their lives if they don’t have a purpose. As a result, they will disregard you and finally expel you from their lives.
Nothing.
They can become enraged for no apparent reason, which could be due to the revolution of the planets or simply because they are an Aries.
They may simply be in a bad mood and refuse to talk to anyone; if someone tries to talk to them or gets in their way, they will get confrontational.
You’re an “irritating person”.
To an Aries, this might be anyone, but if you do or say something that irritates them, they may become enraged and may try to begin a fight with you.
What is the best way to make an Aries envious?
Aries has every right to be possessive. They desire to be the boss and have complete control, particularly over others. They prefer your undivided attention, and those born under this sign are “me first” individuals. To make people envious, you must take a step back and seem bossy at times.
How can you gain the respect of an Aries?
You must be persistently proactive if you want an Aries to respect you. Don’t wait for others to tell you what to do; take the initiative. To get things done and solve problems, rely on your own abilities and resources. Accept any challenge and get in the habit of figuring things out on your own.
Why are Aries so irritable?
Aries is ruled by feisty Mars, the warring planet, which explains why Aries is so aggressive. Mars pulses in Aries are raw, vitalized, and frequently ready for combat. When Aries holds their fury inside, they become depressed, as depression is anger turned inward.