A Libra’s heart yearns for companionship; but, to love a Libra, you must love her entirely.
A Libra will require room and the freedom to be herself at any given time. She wants to suffer, rejoice, despise, and adore herself. Because she’s continuously learning new aspects of herself, these things are always shifting and often contradictory.
She’ll never tell you something important right away; instead, she’ll sit with it until the exact words ring true in her heart and travel into her mouth with great care. She might even write you a letter in that case. Because the depth of her emotions sometimes make it difficult for her to express herself verbally.
She is a big fan of language. She adores the power they possess and the way they can set her free (and so few things can).
So, if you want to adore a Libra, keep in mind that words are the brushstrokes of her heart. She won’t lie because she isn’t very good at it. She won’t brag since she values words too highly. Unfulfilled promises or patronization should never be used to cheapen your words. If you say something hurtful, she’ll remember it, and the words will never be the same.
She is, without a doubt, an artist. A Libra, on the other hand, must find her medium in order to survive in the world. It’s all art to her, whether it’s words or paints, or the subtle, thoughtful crease of a freshly made bed. Anything may be made into beautiful things. She requires objects, noises, smells, and sensations to connect with the part of her that says, “Yes.” That’s all; everything is now in order.” You must understand this in order to love a Libra.
She’ll require her art in the same way that you require your breathwithout it, she’ll lose track of who she is.
You must pay attention to the curvature of her mouth; when her lips purse (even slightly), you can be sure that her mind is wandering and her heart is racing. You’ll see her eyes are far away; at that point, you must allow her to go thereto the area where words make their way into the airbut only for a short time. She’s always on the verge of running away for too long.
A Libra will be enamored with her own physique. She’ll despise her own body as well. But you must adore it, and you must adore it at all times. You must smile and stare into her eyes. To get a better look at her, move her hair away from her face. You must touch her neck while she is doing the dishes, her collar bone while she is typing at her workplace, and her hip while you are standing in line at the grocery store. You must intertwine the mundane and the sexual. As though it were the first time you’ve ever touched her, run your hands over every inch of her flesh. You must make contact with her. She’ll yearn for your embrace and wither if you don’t provide it to her.
She wants to be swept away to explore the world, but she also wants to return to a comfy home.
She’s going to cry. Quite a bit. You won’t know what’s wrong since she’ll cry. She won’t tell you what’s wrong at first since she may not be aware of it. Even if you both don’t understand, there will be times when she simply needs to feel sadness, when she needs to feel the fight of being alive.
Everything: of being human, of responsibility, of hate and violence and injustice, of beauty and lightness and breath, everything: of being human, of responsibility, of hate and violence and injustice, of beauty and lightness and breath, everything. It terrifies her, but it also fascinates her. So she’ll need time and space to explore, dance, and break apart, since nothing is more beautiful than a Libra discovering the world. She has the ability to see magic when others do not. She must have faith in magic. Ferociously.
And when she reaches 30when the leaves begin to change and she feels most like herselfyou’ll be aware of her emotions; because, even if it’s not a huge problem, it is a big deal, and the tears that flow for no apparent reason come from a place of shame in her heart.
To love a Libra, you must rejoice; you must rejoice in her, in life, in the extraordinary, in the ordinary, in anything and anything.
Feeling powerful and complete against feeling fragile and feeble is a delicate balancea constant tug-of-war. She is never entirely sure who she is, as she is always attempting to achieve that elusive balance.
She’ll want to please everyone around her to make up for her lack of knowledge. To love a Libra, you must see that her self-sacrifice, no matter how devastating, is how she loves. Her wounded heart is how she finds her place in a harsh world; it’s how she asserts some controlshe believes that kindness is what matters most.
You must encourage a Libra to practice self-care. You’ll have to teach her this skill because she’ll never put her needs first. You’ll have to convince her that prioritizing her own needs over those of others is not the same as being selfish, because she considers selfishness to be unattractive.
Her heart will be broken on a regular basis. Her heart will be lonely and unhappy for a variety of reasons, but you must never be the one to utterly break it.
To win a Libra’s heart is to win her heart for life. There are no partners who are more dedicated and attentive to you than your Libra. You must never take her for granted, for a Libra’s heart will get unsettled if she is neglected, and her heart will close, and you may never find your way back in.
She’ll get lost now and then. She’ll need hot tea and blankets, as well as black-and-white movies and silence. Other times, she’ll require assistance. She prefers parties, nocturnal walks, and deep, heated conversation to literature, science, and philosophy. She enjoys whiskey as well. You’ll need to understand it in order to love her.
She’ll need frequent reassurance that she’s a beautiful person who is lovedbetter still, beloved. She requires gentle smothering as well as exploration. A Libra craves independence but can’t bear the prospect of being alone. Even though she is a contradiction, you must learn to accept her.
She’ll need to be determined because she lacks it. She’ll surprise you with her spontaneity, and you’ll love her dedication to her passion. Any decision, whether it’s where to eat, what to dress, or who to love, will be agonizing if she has time to deliberate. This will annoy you, but you must strive to comprehend it. There is no such thing as a clear choice for her.
To love a Libra is to love love itself. She adores everything about love: the connection, the discovery, the heartbreak, the euphoria, and even the concept of love. She craves the security of a relationship, yet she thrives on the thrill of love’s unpredictability.
She can see the good in practically everyone, but she looks for brains and humor in a lover. There’s nothing more seductive than wit.
She despises conflict because it makes her feel vulnerable; but, loving her means not being overly concerned, because she believes in forgiveness and trustenough to heal practically any wound inflicted on her. When you fight with a Libra, she will believe that every battle is the end of the world, which will ruin her a little; you must tell her that every dispute is an opportunity for growthit is the start of a new world. When you love a Libra, you understand that there are few things more vital than make-up sex.
She enjoys falling in love, therefore if you want to love a Libra, you’ll have to fall in love repeatedly. She’ll need constant development, motivation, and a smidgeon of sin.
To love a Libra, you must see the good intention she has in her heart at all times; to dismiss this well-intentioned aspect of her is to deny her a personal truth. She won’t be able to live without this knowledge. You must breathe when she’s awful, unpleasant, or arguing because she’s rightwhich she generally is, because she’s a Libra and it’s in her nature to be fair, just, and undeniably right Then believe in her tears and her words.
However, if you notice a flash of rage in her eyes, you must allow her to rage. In the face of injustice, Libra, the calm and sympathetic sign, will rage. When her heart tells her it’s time to battle, you must give her the room to be a fighter. You must stand by her side, admire her commitment, and believe in the causesee it for what it is: a manifestation of her deepest desire.
She could be portrayed as an introvert. Those who know her best might label her as an extrovert. It doesn’t matter which, as long as she feels connected to the world around her.
When a Libra is content, she has the power to rule the world. She merely needs the right music, laughter, and a friendly grin.
The difficulty is to keep her there, since there’s an ocean of contentment there that only her vast heart can comprehend. You can keep her forever if you can keep her in the moment. However, the Libra mind will wander and worry. It will linger on the wrongdoing that caused her so much pain. She’ll pay close attention to the words you used, as well as the ones you didn’t say. To love a Libra, you must gently guide her back to the now again and over again. She’ll wonder about stability and what each embrace, touch, or argument will mean in the long run; to love a Libra, you must gently bring her back to the now over and over again.
She believes in people’s goodness, magic, and, most importantly, happily ever after.
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What does love mean to a Libra?
She’ll need frequent reassurance that she’s a beautiful person who is lovedbetter still, beloved. She requires gentle smothering and exciting adventures. A Libra craves independence but can’t bear the prospect of being alone. Even though she is a contradiction, you must learn to accept her.
She’ll need to be determined because she lacks it. She’ll surprise you with her spontaneity, and you’ll love her dedication to her passion. Any decision, whether it’s where to eat, what to dress, or who to love, will be difficult if she has time to deliberate. This will irritate you, but keep in mind that there is no such thing as an easy choice for a Libra.
To love a Libra is to love love itself. She adores all aspects of love: the spark, the discovery, the anguish, the bliss, and even the concept of love. She longs for the security of commitment, yet she thrives on the thrill of falling in love.
She can recognize the good in anyone, but she looks for brains and humor in a lover. There is nothing more enticing to her than wit.
She despises dissension because it makes her feel vulnerable, but loving her means not worrying too much. She believes in forgiveness and trust to the point where she can forgive and trust practically anyone who has wronged her. When you argue with a Libra, she will believe that every battle is the end of everything, which will ruin her a little; you must tell her that every disagreement is an opportunity to grow in the relationshipit is the start of something new. To love a Libra, you must understand that there are few things more important than make-up sex.
She enjoys falling in love, so falling in love with a Libra will require you to do so hundreds of times. She’ll need constant development, motivation, and a smidgeon of sin.
To love a Libra, you must see the good intention she has in her heart at all times; to dismiss this well-intentioned part of her is to deny her a personal truth. She won’t be able to live without this knowledge. You must breathe when she is horrible, disrespectful, or argumentative because she is correct. Then believe that her tears and words come from a genuine place.
However, if you notice a flash of rage in her eyes, you must allow her to rage. In the face of bigotry, Libra, the calm and sympathetic sign, will rage. Allow her to be a warrior when her heart tells her that it’s time to battle. You must stand by her side, applaud her dedication, and join the causesee it for what it is: a manifestation of her truest desire.
Your task will be to keep her there, because there is an ocean of contentment there that only her big heart can appreciate. You can keep her forever if you can keep her in that moment. However, the Libra mind wanders and worries. It will stick in her mind as a painful recollection. She’ll pay close attention to the words you usedor the ones you didn’t say. To love a Libra, you must gently guide her back to the now time and time again. She’ll wonder about stability and what each embrace, touch, or argument will mean in the long run; to love a Libra, you must gently guide her back to the now again and time again.
“What it Means to Love a Libra” was first published in elephant journal, and has since been edited and republished with their gracious permission.
How do you know a Libra is in love?
Libra guys are romantic, and they fall hard when they love. He may be willing to talk or meet with you on short notice, or you may notice that he promptly returns your calls and texts, even if you’re texting late at night. He lives for the moments when he gets to be with you or chat to you like a Libra in love. If you look for these tiny signals in his conduct, you’ll be able to tell if he’s interested in you.
Why do I love Libras?
To stand next to a Libra, you must be self-assured, as Libras are natural leaders who grab attention without doing anything. Their inherent aura is soothing, inviting, and enjoyable. Libras attract others because they make them feel better when they are near them. They’re genuine gems in the rough. Libras alternate between being autonomous and obedient, depending on what is considered appropriate at the time.
They can be a sun sign who succeeds in social circumstances or a moon sign who is more concerned with achieving emotional harmony. If you fall into the first category, congratulations. People are likely to want to be around you since you exude confidence, which is the most sexiest quality a person can possess. If you are the latter, however, you have even more reason to rejoice. Confidence can take various forms, and sometimes just being the person who keeps their emotions in check is all that is required.
For the Libra, it’s not about appearances. Libras enjoy good things and have exquisite taste, but when it comes to love, they delve deep into a person’s soul. If you’re insecure, being in a relationship (or even friends) with a Libra will be difficult. They won’t even realize they’re in the “light,” but others may misinterpret them as narcissistic when, in reality, a Libra is simply being themselves.
If you happen to come across a Libra, don’t let them go since they’re worth having around.
Do Libra miss their ex?
Libras are highly understanding people who can forgive and forget just about anything, no matter how terribly their ex has injured them. Of course, they’ll never forget how much they adored (and possibly still adore) their ex.
Are Libras loyal?
Libras are one of astrology’s most amorous zodiac signs. They’re loyal, charming, and like being in love, which makes them great companions… for the most part.
Libras, like any other sign, have their own set of flaws. And, no matter how hard the metaphorical Scales try to balance things out, these flaws can cause major problems in relationships.
What are Libras turn ons?
Venus, the planet of love and beauty, rules Libra. As a result, Libras treat their partners like priceless works of art. It’s no wonder that Libras are drawn to refinement and sophistication, given their refined palette. Making a beverage for your Libra and playing some amazing music will go a long way. Libras are also very visual people, so some opulent lingerie or a provocative (or nasty) nude will appeal to them.
But don’t be fooled by their outgoing personalitiesLibras are also notorious for their daring in the bedroom. Spanking, finger-pointing, and butt-plugging are all possibilities. Plus, Libras are all about harmony, so don’t be shocked if they want to trade positions every now and then.
The shortest road to a Libra’s heart, though, is always through the mind. In other words, even if someone is great in bed, a Libra will be turned off immediately if the postcoital conversation is dull (or nonexistent).
Who will a Libra marry?
Fellow air signs (Gemini, Aquarius, and other Libras) are the most compatible signs for Libra friendships and sexual partnerships since they speak the same airy language.
Do Libras fall in love quickly?
Consider yourself one of the luckiest persons on the planet if you’ve managed to attract the attention of a Libra. Libras, as the zodiac’s most romantic sign, have a knack of helping your love story unfold in a truly wonderful way. They’re affectionate, charming, and attentive. They always seem to know just what to say and how to treat a spouse properly. It can make you wonder if they are the real deal. Is it possible that they’re too wonderful to be true? Knowing more about how Libras approach love and how long it takes them to fall in love should perhaps dispel any reservations you may have.
Libras enjoy being courted and pursued as the zodiac’s biggest hopeless romantics. They need to know that you are completely focused on them. The Libra love languages, according to certified astrologer Kyla Derkach, are gifts and acts of service. You can win their hearts by surprising them with modest surprises or by assisting them with chores and tasks. Intelligence is really appealing to them because they are Air signs. As a result, provoking engaging dialogues will undoubtedly help to maintain their interest.
You will be the center of their universe once you gain their heart. “Libra’s chosen mate will feel like a romantic blockbuster movie’s eye-candy costar,” Leigh says. Libras will lavish you with devotion and love. They’ll look after you, listen to you, and keep you warm and comfortable. Because their sign rules the house of partnership, being in a relationship allows them to be their best selves.
It’s crucial to remember, though, that Libras can fall in love hard and fast, but they can also lose interest just as soon. You won’t be as swift as an Aries or a Gemini, but you’ll have to keep the spark alive in your relationship. Lang, for example, says they like socializing with their partner. Going out and spending time with friends and family can help you keep your relationship on track. Sex is also important to Libra, who consider it as a method to maintain contact with their partner.
They desire to be respected and appreciated above all else. If you can show them how much you care, they will do everything they can to make you happy.
Who loves Libra?
Libras enjoy being in love and thrive in relationships. When they’re working with others, their positive traits shine through, so they’re easy to enter into connections with. A Libra’s ideal mate is someone who shares their sense of fairness. They are most suited to persons who aren’t scared to make ideas on where to go on a night out because they despise having to make all the decisions.
Libra Compatibility In Friendship
Libra’s Venusian rulership makes them naturally charming and gregarious, and they enjoy being in the company of those who can hold a stimulating discussion and make them laugh. They seek for pals who thrive in huge groups of people and may be just as delighted at a party as they are at an art museum or the theater. Warning signals for fires Leo and Sagittarius are creatively energized and have an uncanny capacity to enliven whatever space they enter. They get along well with generous Libras because of their adventurous energy and endless ideas for entertaining places to visit.
Libra Compatibility In Love
Libras are huge flirts who can easily seduce a lover with their smooth talking abilities, and they’re readily captured by others’ flattery and charisma. They tend to avoid strong emotions, but in serious relationships, they will seek out deeper emotional connections. Gemini and Aquarius, both air signs, are the most compatible with Libra in love because they share Libra’s social intelligence and energy. Libras are drawn to people who are as kind and fair as they are, and they don’t want to have to deal with any drama on their partner’s behalf, which is why they are drawn to Gemini and Aquarius’ natural ability to get along with others.
Libra Compatibility In Bed
Libras have an active and passionate side as cardinal signs, which stimulates their profound sexual urges in the bedroom. They enjoy being close to their lovers and having all five senses stimulated and teased during sex. To gratify a Libra, use silk bed sheets, scented candles, and mood-setting music. Libras get along best in bed with Aries, another cardinal sign. Both Libra and Aries are passionate people who appreciate the thrill of pursuing and pleasing intimacy. A determined Aries that knows just how to obtain what they want would be ideal for Libras.