A Scorpio who isn’t interested in you will most likely be impolite. He can even be inspired and driven to crush your heart and cause you pain.
When someone is unpleasant to you, your natural reaction is to walk away from them totally. When actual feelings and interests are involved, though, you don’t feel like you can accomplish that right now.
You feel driven to spend more time with him in order to persuade him that he shouldn’t treat you this way. But that’s also why you shouldn’t try to persuade him in any way.
He clearly knows what he wants, and his behaviors toward you speak for themselves. I know we were told as youngsters that if a man is disrespectful to you, it’s because he likes you, but it’s a terrible lie they tell kids.
Don’t allow yourself get taken in by it. You shouldn’t text him first, or even at all (unless he chooses to apologize for his rude behavior, of course).
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If you’re the one doing all the chasing
Sure, he was the one who approached you and spoke with you the first time you met each other. But it’s all been you since then. You’re the one who inserted his phone number, added and followed him on social media, and so on.
Of course, there is nothing wrong with a woman driving and pursuing a man. However, it’s not a good thing if you’re doing everything for him and he’s becoming spoilt.
He’s not giving you any indication that he’s interested. You’re attempting to get to know him, and he seems to love the attention, but he doesn’t respond with any questions.
So anytime you two converse, you get the impression that you’re the one who’s more interested, which makes you appear clingy.
Should I make the first move on a Scorpio man?
Dating a Scorpio is a lot like playing a long game of chess. If you make your first move too early, you will lose all of your pieces before the game even begins. Scorpio needs to feel in control at all times, but they won’t open up to you until they’re sure you’re safe. They also won’t bring up the subject of commitment because even the prospect of rejection makes them uncomfortable.
If you want to be with a Scorpio, you must to make the first move by demonstrating your availability. Then make them believe that they were the one who proposed to you. It will assist them in maintaining their sense of control.
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Does the no contact rule work on Scorpios?
Scorpios are fixed water signs, which means that if they’re emotionally committed in someone, the last thing they want to do is end the relationship. If you try to terminate it, they may refuse to accept your decision and may go to any length to reclaim you. And, if they were the one who broke up the relationship, odds are they meant it when they stated it was done.
Establishing “no contact” until you’re certain both sides have moved on is crucial, no matter how you slice it. They’ll bring you back under their love spell if you grab their olive branch. If you keep trying to contact them after they’ve broken your heart, you’ll most likely be disappointed.
How do you know when a Scorpio man is lying?
Scorpio likes to think of himself as the most trustworthy and honest person you’ve ever met — and he’s generally right. Scorpio despises being associated with bad apples, let alone being labeled as one, so why would he try to deceive you? Okay, Scorpio, we get “Despises” lying. But that doesn’t matter because everyone, even him, lies.
Scorpio is a master of deception when it comes to lying. It’s only when you start asking questions that he becomes jittery. When you start probing into what he considers to be an impenetrable untruth, he’ll almost certainly become defensive.
“I can’t believe you believe I’m telling the truth. Perhaps you’re the one who’s lying, because what you just said about me is complete nonsense!” Maybe if he dials it back a notch, it’ll be more convincing.
Are Scorpios bad at texting?
Scorpios are introverts who love their alone time more than anything else. If you text them while they’re reading or journaling, don’t anticipate a response for several hours – their phone is probably turned off.