In their love life and relationships, people with Venus in Scorpio demand intensity, passion, and utter closeness. Their longing for unity is manifested not only physically, but also mentally and spiritually. This might cause them to become overly possessive of others, as though they want “all or nothing.” This positioning, on the other hand, can make people exceedingly magnetic, intriguing, sexy, and alluring. While this frequently leads to people being secretive about their personal life, it also leads them to seek out someone who is more practical, tactile, and generous in order to be the ones who swim in the storm of their hearts. This placement can lead to a desire for fatal attraction relationships, which are destructive, fiery, and transformational. However, they learn to control their emotions with time and usually find partners who are more grounded to help them stay on track.
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What are Venus in Scorpio attracted to?
Men born under the sign of Scorpio like alluring and enigmatic women. Women who are energetic and powerful, rather than docile or weak-willed, appeal to him. The man with Venus in Scorpio has a hard time respecting a woman who lacks willpower and prefers a lady with a powerful, assertive personality.
Is Venus good in Scorpio?
“Venus is a water sign, and the Scorpionic waves are a little too violent for the goddess of love to swim in,” Montfar explains. As a result, Venus’s transit through Scorpio might elicit feelings of jealously, obsession, and manipulation, which will be a major source of conflict in our romantic life this month.
Does Venus in Scorpio cheat?
“I want both your love and your vengeance… I don’t want to be buddies; I want your love.”
This sentence from Lady Gagas’ Bad Romance accurately describes Venus in Scorpio. Venus in Libra was all about love, appearances, beauty, and allure. Truth, honesty, loyalty, and deep compulsion are all aspects of Venus in Scorpio.
Venus in Libra was a milk chocolate girl, sweet and exquisite, with a lovely texture and a melt-in-your-mouth soft center. The Venus we saw in Libra was aloof, charming, and a touch conservative. She was looking for her “other half,” someone who could help her balance out her flaws while maximizing her strengths. That Venus was a social butterfly, equally at ease sipping cappuccinos and cakes with her girlfriends as she was dressed to the nines sipping cocktails somewhere equally spectacular.
This Venus, in Scorpio, is unlike any other. This Venus truffle is a bittersweet black dark truffle with a hint of chilli. This Venus is secretive, obsessive, and a little edgy. Venus can be sassy, dominatrix-like, and all-consuming. This Venus isn’t looking for a partner; she’s looking for a soul mate, and she wants you all to herself. She has a strong desire for everything. She wants your passion, not your ugliness. She’s after your enthusiasm. She has no desire to be buddies. She’s also irresistible. Sounds delectable, terrifying, or just bizarre?
Venus is the ruler of Taurus, Scorpio’s polar opposite sign. This indicates that she is in the sign of Scorpio, which is unfavorable to her. All of the passion and undertones are a little too much work for her, and it’s far too messy. Venus is all about attraction and pleasure, but she mesmerizes in Scorpio. She desires everything in Scorpio. She doesn’t just taste, but she eats in Scorpio.
Venus, like a Scorpio, is incapable of loving just a little. She doesn’t flirt or play games, which makes her all the more attractive. She is who she is, and when she desires something or someone, she desires it with all of her being, regardless of the time it takes. It’s like having a yearning for Pinot Gris, but all you have in the fridge is Chardonnay.
Though you have Venus in Aries, like me, you’ll drink the Chardonnay even if you know it’ll give you a headache after two glasses—anything for instant enjoyment. If your Venus is in Scorpio, you’ll save up for the Pinot Gris and refuse to drink anything else. Why drink the dairy milk when you can have the Lindt 70% chocolate Lindt? When it comes to her pleasure, Venus in Scorpio is laser-focused, and she is willing to wait for it…in need. Unfortunately, because Venus is conjunct Pluto, I will not only opt for the fast fix (chardonnay), but I will also seek what I actually desire (ie the pinot gris in this rather poor example).
When she does fall in love, she will do it completely, and she will assume that you will do the same. If you’re not a water person, this can be difficult. Scorpio prefers not to discuss it; you are expected to just “know.” It’s all about how you feel; words are meaningless.
You will know you have been loved if you have been loved by a Scorpio. She will be envious, possessive, and if you cheat on her, she will never forgive you…and she will eventually exact her revenge.
Is she going to betray you? By now, you should know what I think about this: any sign can cheat if the motivations, circumstances, and mindset are correct. You’d never guess Venus in Scorpio is so contained and private—a she’s genius at compartmentalizing.
Once you have earned her trust, Scorpio is a fixed, reserved, and obstinately loyal sign. She will expect complete honesty and fidelity from you, but she is not beyond falling in love with someone else if she believes you have betrayed her, become aloof, or are not entirely invested in her as you should be. If your Scorpio woman cheats, don’t rule out the possibility of power or control as motivating factors.
If she feels you aren’t being completely truthful, she transforms into the world’s most brilliant forensic detective, and she won’t stop until she has either established your guilt or accepted your innocence. The concept of “innocent until proven guilty” does not apply to Scorpio. Simply ensure that all traces of any damning texts or emails have been deleted…
Venus in Scorpio, on the other hand, is extremely emotional and has a hard time distinguishing between sex and love. Scorpio’s sex is a life-changing, transformative 8th house experience, not 5th house enjoyment. If you’re in love with a Scorpio, make sure you’re willing to pay the price if things go wrong. Scorpio, on the other hand, is unforgettably memorable if you are willing to take the risk.
Do you find all of this to be a little unsettling? Venus in Scorpio is like the forbidden fruit: you know it’s wrong, yet it tastes so sweet!
If your Venus is in Scorpio, you approach love and relationships with a single-minded intensity…and your prey will have no chance! You’ll be drawn to ladies who are aware of their deeper, more primitive instincts. Her horoscope will either have a strong Scorpio signature or a strong Pluto element, such as Scorpio personal planets or Pluto closely aspecting her personal planets (especially the Moon or Venus). She could have Pluto in the 7th house or a whole 8th house. In any case, you’re a man who enjoys a good challenge and the occasional power game.
Venus in Scorpio favors the dark side when it comes to fashion. Mata Hari, or the male equivalent, is the quintessential femme fatale. She’s wearing a silk blouse with a sharp pencil skirt and spike heels. She’s a domanitrix in leather and stilettos. She’s the pierced and tattooed Emo who hangs out at Flinders St station. She is all of these things and none of them at the same time. Even when she is at her most conservative, she will wear something with a bit of a twist.
Think black, dark purple, blood red, leather, silk, and opulent gothic underworld crypt-ish splendour for the interiors. Take a look at the image below. It was taken in Melbourne’s Spellbox- The Witches House last year. The shop is no longer open (albeit the original Spellbox is still open in the Royal Arcade), but the decor was Venus in Scorpio personified. With gothic-styled bookcases stocked with apothecary bottles of all imaginable herbs and powders, scrying bowls, owls, mortar and pestles, and birch twigs as decorations. This business was Venus in Scorpio interior decorating nirvana, with purple and jewelled blue textiles from the ceiling and turquoise walls, and the only light coming from candelabra and crystal chandeliers…although you might want to tone it down a touch for home usage!
Do you or someone you know sound like this? This may be a little too accurate (and enticing) for comfort if you are a Scorpio woman or a man or woman with Venus in Scorpio or Venus conjunct, square, inconjunct, or opposite Pluto!
Are Scorpio Venus loyal?
Love is the most important thing to Venus in Leo. It’s what keeps them up at night and keeps their world spinning. They’re quite theatrical in wooing, as if they’re the leads of a dramatic historical piece about a forbidden love. They’ll strut and peacock around, shaking their tail feathers, and lovers better be ready to applaud and praise these (honestly, cute) displays—or face their anger. They’ll want to brag about you to all their pals once you’ve DTR’d—Venus in Leo people thrive on being part of a power pair.
People born under the sign of Venus are warm-hearted, generous, and down-to-earth. Basically, how much attention kids get is a barometer of a healthy relationship for them. They must believe that they are the center of your universe. Flighty, uninterested, preoccupied, or grumpy partners will quickly realize that this leads to huge sulking (and subsequent fights). Partners are rewarded with a person who wines, dines, and entertains them in the most extravagant ways—plus is tremendously devoted and loyal—in exchange for their attention, appreciation, and passion. This is the place to go if you want to live in a love story.
People born under the sign of Venus are obsessive about the finer points of life, so they’ll take their time getting to know someone, patiently accumulating the essential knowledge and insight into what makes the object of their affection tick—usually from a safe distance at first. Indeed, because Venus in Virgo is innately cautious, sensitive, and reserved (they don’t like making the first move, thank you), it can take a long time for a person to recognize that she likes them at all. They treasure their alone time even after you’ve been dating for a long.
This amount of information about their relationships (together with their Virgo-ish perfectionism) can cause them to badger their partners, point out what could be done better, or simply do it themselves passive-aggressively. Their critical notes may grate on your nerves, but keep in mind that they do so with care! They pay attention to the details, and the best method to court a Venus in Virgo is to demonstrate that you do as well: Make a mental note of their coffee order or favorite ice cream flavor and surprise them with it later. On the plus side, they demonstrate their love by assisting, considering, and providing practical assistance, and if they’re in a relationship, they’ll go all out to make it work. If that’s your thing, Venus in Virgo is a no-brainer!
Venus in Libras are masters of the romantic game; they’re great flirts, gentle lovers, and true romantics. They also prefer things to be harmonious, balanced, and idealized, which might come across as superficial or unrealistic given that life is usually more complicated, messy, and unfair than they prefer. Their innate beauty and artistic sense make them yearn for a fairy-tale romance.
They are pleasing and accommodating companions, willingly sharing their lives and easily adapting to the requirements of others. They are non-aggressive and will go to great lengths to pacify their spouses. However, if their compromising, fair character is exploited, tension can arise as they attempt to restore equilibrium. The key to having a Venus in Libra relationship work is to always be fair and perform your fair part of the work. Treat people the way you want to be treated, and they will reciprocate to the letter.
Because they have a hardwired sensuality and a brave, concentrated yearning for intensity with others, those with Venus in Scorpio attract others easily. Anyone they’re interested in, in other words, is well aware of it (and may find it hard to resist their explosive energy). Although they do not allow this laser-beam analysis to be focused back at them, they have no bounds when it comes to the amounts of closeness they desire (they are secretive and guarded AF). When they’re into you, they’re all in, to the point of obsession. Don’t be surprised if they know your third-grade teacher’s name or your great-name. grandfather’s They have done their homework.
Is all of this a little too much for you? It’s possible, and for many individuals, it’s too much. In their affections, Venus in Scorpios can be harsh, cutting, and provocative. They are, however, tremendously loyal, deep, and interested in their spouse on many levels, as well as a total powerhouse in bed. So there will never be a dull moment in your life! Do you dare to date one?
Does Venus in Scorpio get jealous?
Scorpios are known for being a jealous bunch, and those with their Venus in this sign are no exception. They may trust you, but it doesn’t imply they’ll trust anyone else around you. They genuinely want to crawl into your body and wear your skin when they love, OK?
So just be aware that if you’re with someone born under this sign, they’ll struggle with issues of control and may try to get into your brain through emotional manipulation tactics. Their retaliation will be so unobtrusive that you won’t even realize they’re trying to get back at you. But God forbid you don’t notice, because it will just make things worse for them.
To make a relationship with a Venus in Scorpio individual work, you must encourage them to communicate all of their feelings with you, not just the good ones. A relationship with someone with this placement can endure a lifetime once they discover that it is okay for them to be insecure without losing their authority.
Why is Venus in detriment in Scorpio?
There’s something about detriment Venus people who can’t seem to fit into any social role they think they’re supposed to play. It frightens them. “Well, if this individual expects me to act like this, then what the heck happens if I disappoint?” they reason.
Then Venus, to their detriment, does whatever they believe will enrage the other person the greatest.
There’s a phrase about Venus in Aries liking people who don’t like them but not liking people who like them, and how it’s such a typical difficulty for Venus in Aries to like people who don’t like them but not like people who like them. This, I believe, has less to do with conventional notions of desirability politics and more to do with Venus’s dread of interpersonal inadequacy.
We sometimes prefer folks who dislike us because we feel safer when we don’t have anything to lose. We can’t let someone down who didn’t expect anything from us to begin with. When that individual chooses to leave us, we may even feel relieved, as rejection feels more comfortable than acceptance.
In detriment, Venus is a Venus who feels compelled to show its own approval. It’s a Venus that isn’t quite right. It doesn’t feel possible to be in a normal relationship and go about your daily life. Venus is a Venus who feels as if she has something to hide, and that something is the self.
Venus, on the other hand, avoids sweet foods when they are available. They’re not used to being able to take sweetness. The lovely item is flung back at the earth by Venus in Aries. Venus, who is in Scorpio, allows the lovely thing to decay. Venus, on the other hand, has a hard time accepting gifts or compliments. It’s a Venus who stutters when she’s supposed to be graceful.
All Venus in detriments might expect some rejection, but each detriment is distinct. Venuses deal with anticipation in a unique way. Scorpio Venus may tighten her grip or withdraw. Aries Venus is a little better at disguising its feelings, and when it is insecure, it tends to flaunt them.
Venus, on the other hand, is dissatisfied with the current concepts of love and mutual dependence. It wants to belong as much as it wants to disrupt connections. It is only in changing connections that one feels at ease.
Younger people have a disadvantage. People born on the planet Venus worry a lot about whether they’re doing things correctly or if they’re abnormal. They could pay close attention to their surroundings, attempting to figure out how everyone else seems to know exactly what they’re supposed to do. This is due to the fact that there is a negative impact. People from Venus have an uneasy feeling that they aren’t supposed to be in the places they are. They have the impression that the self that other people see is not the true self.
Venus, on the other hand, matures when it quits attempting to define normalcy. People with Venus in their detriment will never be able to settle into expectations, but they will be able to accept themselves.
Venus, on the other hand, is envious and competitive (domicile Venuses are more envious than jealous). This is due to the fact that there is a negative impact. Venus considers the self to be a threat to their relationships, whereas domicile Venus considers relationships to be a threat to themselves. It’s not that Venus in retrograde doesn’t trust their spouse; it’s that they doubt their own ability to be the person they believe their lovers require. Venus, on the other hand, can only flourish if it is permitted to be true rather than dutiful.
This isn’t a Venus who remains the same person over time. Venus, to their detriment, transforms into a new person during the course of any long relationship, and they want their partners to do the same. They will not be completely satisfied unless they see their spouses changing as well. They despise it when a relationship causes two people to become identical. This frightens them.
There is no Venus who is prepared to lay around and hope that someone notices them. This isn’t a Venus who goes about her business, which is to appear beautiful. This is the Venus of a hunter—one who stalks, preys, and takes.
In the case of most Venus, their wants are not socially acceptable. Venus in Scorpio desires to be owned and possessed. Venus in Aries desires to devastate and destroy. Desire is sometimes forcefully expressed. This is unrelated to abuse, which is defined as a pattern of non-consensual dominance. Venus in detriment is wacky, but it’s no more prone to abuse than any other Venus sign.
Venus, on the other hand, has strong desires. Desire can feel overwhelming, as if it has taken over one’s entire being. Venus’s affliction causes her to become insatiable with desire. This isn’t a full Venus who eats desserts in the hopes that things will be just as plentiful tomorrow as they are today. This is a hungry Venus who believes that whatever she doesn’t eat today will be devoured tomorrow.
Who is a Scorpio rising?
Scorpio is a very magnetic sign. The Scorpio rising person has powerful, seething emotions that are typically hidden. Others find you intriguing and secretive if this describes you; you appear to purposefully turn on the charm for them.
On the birth chart, someone born under this zodiac sign is at the ascendant. This was the eastern horizon zodiac sign at the time of your birth, but you’ll need a specific time to be certain.
Is Venus in Scorpio now?
Venus, the planet of beauty and love, has entered the sensuous sign of Scorpio. During the following two weeks, expect a lot of passion and energy!
