The Fool was the card I drew for my daily card this morning, so I chose to attempt something a little different for today’s post. Even if you missed the live broadcast, you can still see the replay because I did it on Facebook. I’m discussing third party tarot readings in this broadcast, or readings that are focused on someone other than the seeker. A third party reading would occur, for instance, if you asked someone else what they think of you or about their personality.
I won’t deny that this broadcast contained some rambling. There are some priceless nuggets hidden among the rambling, so don’t worry. Learn the dos and don’ts of third party readings by watching this broadcast’s replay. I also go into great detail in the video outlining a tarot spread you can use. Below is a picture of that spread.
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Which tarot card connotes adultery?
Unfortunately, infidelity and cheating are frequent occurrences in romantic partnerships. So it should come as no surprise that readers frequently give predictions about whether or not a partner has been unfaithful. Sometimes there is no cause for concern, but other times the cards show that the seeker’s partner has been acting dishonestly.
This list of “Tarot Cards for Cheating and Infidelity” is merely a suggestion from me. Keep in mind that receiving one of these cards does not necessarily indicate that your partner has been unfaithful. Use your gut feeling and follow it.
of Pentacles
The 2 of Pentacles frequently appears in readings that involve infidelity. The 2 of Pentacles frequently represents a juggling act, which is the reason why.
The two of pentacles may indicate that your partner is dividing their attention between other lovers. They can be under stress as a result of trying to divide their resources between you and another person. Therefore, the 2 of Pentacles will appear in love readings where there has been cheating.
The High Priestess
There are two factors that make The High Priestess a classic adultery Tarot card, and both of them are included in The High Priestess’ primary meanings.
The High Priestess is a card of intuition, to start with. Usually, it suggests that you trust and pay attention to your gut. If you think your partner is cheating on you, this card may indicate that your suspicions are accurate.
Second, The High Priestess can also stand in for things that are unknown, obscured, or kept a secret. Because of this, it is clear that this card could indicate that your partner is concealing information from you, which is a regular occurrence in adultery.
of Swords
The usual card representing infidelity is the 7 of Swords. In actuality, dishonesty is one of its primary meanings. It represents someone doing something they shouldn’t be doing (and trying to get away with it). In your Tarot reading, the 7 of Swords clearly indicates that your companion is telling you lies.
The Tower
Most people’s worst dread is being unfaithful. The Tower, the card of destruction and shock, is a Tarot card that frequently denotes infidelity in a relationship, thus it should come as no surprise.
The Tower typically stands for the unexpected. Therefore, it is unlikely that your partner would cheat on you with someone you would ordinarily suspect. You won’t suspect who they are cheating with until it’s too late.
I should clarify, though, that The Tower doesn’t always indicate that your partner has cheated on you, especially if you have already come to the conclusion that they have. This card, which represents surprises and shocks, can indicate that your partner is likely hiding something else from you that you aren’t even aware of, rather than actively cheating on you.
The Fool
The Fool can occasionally stand for unexpected or outrageous behavior. This card will show up when a person presents themselves as independent even though they have domestic duties to attend to. Essentially, The Fool can suggest that your sweetheart is free of the bonds of a relationship in their thinking. As a result, if your spouse doesn’t act like the relationship is serious, they might cheat on you.
Knight of Wands
When you feel that the Knight symbolizes your relationship in your Tarot reading and ask explicitly about adultery, The Knight of Wands may occasionally suggest that your mate is unfaithful.
High sex drive is a reputation of the Knight of Wands. While this doesn’t always indicate infidelity, it does suggest that your boyfriend has a curious gaze. It’s not a good omen if your readings seem particularly depressing and the Knight of Wands appears.
Queen of Swords
Another court card that can signify adultery and unfaithfulness is the Queen of Swords. The Queen of Swords, on the other hand, represents the “other woman,” while the Knight of Wands represents your partner.
The Queen of Swords frequently indicates the presence of someone who wants to hurt you or who wishes evil things on you in Tarot readings. People who meddle in your romantic life might also be represented by the Queen of Swords. It is reasonable to interpret this card as a warning that someone is getting close to your partner and intends to ruin your relationship.
of Swords
The 3 of Swords is another Tarot card that has historically been connected to cheating and infidelity, much as the 7 of Swords. Where there were once two swords, there are now three, signifying the entry of another person into your partnership.
The Three of Swords has traditionally been associated with heartbreak and frequently denotes the traumatic breakdown of a relationship. That doesn’t necessarily mean that your relationship will end, but it may indicate that you have a difficult path ahead of you.
The Magician
The Magician Tarot card symbolizes manifestation, fresh commercial endeavors, and your initiating of things. The Magician is associated with many good things. Magicians are enjoyable and exciting, but they can have a sinister side.
The Magician is occasionally a card of deceit and cunning. The Magician is also traditionally seen as a representation of a con man. A person in your life may not be as forthcoming as you would like, thus this is a sign.
The Moon
The Moon merits a spot in my list of the top 10 Tarot cards that represent adultery and cheating since it is another card that is typically connected with dishonesty. In fact, I would suggest that The Moon is the card on this list that I would consider to be most likely to indicate infidelity.
Darkness can be understood in divination as a representation of things that are concealed from you. Even having nighttime dreams can indicate that things are not as they seem. It is evident that if you don’t know everything about your relationship, something isn’t right.
The Moon can represent intuition and secrets, making it comparable to The High Priestess. When adultery is present, the seeker typically already has a gut feeling that something is amiss in their relationship, which is why they are looking for infidelity in a Tarot reading. The Moon frequently denotes that you already know the reality and are simply waiting for confirmation from your Tarot cards of your assumptions.
That concludes our discussion of Tarot cards that stand for infidelity and cheating. A free copy of Tarot for Beginners is available here:
Questions you don’t really want answered
Even though it might seem apparent, it’s advisable to refrain from asking the tarot cards questions that you aren’t prepared to hear the answers to. That’s because answers to these questions can reveal information you’re just not quite ready to hear.
“Tarot can definitely come off as offensive if you’re not willing to hear the truth or consider an opposing opinion. Tarot reading Nicole Fortunaso
According to tarot reader and life coach Nicole Fortunaso, “tarot may truly come out as offensive if you are not willing to hear the truth of the problem or look at an alternate viewpoint.” She advises analyzing why you’re reacting the way you are in order to reflect on how to effectively address the underlying problem if you ask the question and aren’t satisfied with the response.
What does a relationship’s third party scenario entail?
A third party is, in the opinion of experts, a person or group involved in a situation, particularly a dispute, other than the couple. He or she may be a family member, acquaintance, coworker, or neighbor of one of the couples.
The question of whether or not spouses should allow others to arbitrate their marital issues has been a topic of discussion in public discourse.
The vast majority of couples who spoke with SUNDAY PUNCH about their own experiences thought that having third parties in marriages would be extremely harmful. They came to the decision that a third party wasn’t essential because they had previously used one to resolve their marital conflicts.
Mrs. Khadijat Hussein, a child health advocate, told our reporter about her experience and warned that when couples consult outside parties about marital problems, they run the risk of receiving bad advice that could lead to the breakdown of their union.
According to Hussein, many women love talking about their disputes with their husbands to strangers while being unaware that these strangers may be dealing with a more challenging issue at home.
She stated: “You will often hear women say things like, “Chai, my husband cannot try that with me,” or “If I were you, I would do this and that if my husband tries that with me,” when they talk about their problems with a friend or coworker. The third parties keep giving out bad advice.
“On the basis of this, I believe it is incorrect because the friend or coworker you inform about your husband might be dealing with a more serious issue at home. A third party might offer bad advise, which could ruin a marriage. If the third person offers sound counsel, it might be helpful, but these days, the situation is the opposite. I often tell women to exercise caution because of this. All of your buddies may not be good to you.
What examples of third parties?
Any party with a left-liberal, progressive, social democratic, democratic socialist, or marxist program is included in this category.
- Party of African People’s Socialists
- USA Communist Party
- Socialist Party of Freedom
- Socialist Party of Liberation
- Party for Peace and Freedom
- USA Justice Party
- Party for Socialist Equality
- Alternative Socialist
- USA Socialist Party
- Party of Socialist Workers
- Employer-Class Party
- World Workers Party
- Party for Working Families
- Founders’ Party (Cincinnati, Ohio only)
- Alaska’s Green Party
- Rhode Island Green Party
- New York’s Liberal Party
- Party of Liberty (Vermont)
- Progressive Party of Oregon
- Positive Dane (Dane county, Wisconsin)
- Unite the Independents (Massachusetts)
- Progressive Party of Vermont
- Progressive Party of Washington
Can you interpret your own tarot cards?
It most certainly is. Tarot is a technique that aids in deepening our understanding of the present moment, honoring our intuition, and predicting future possibilities. Although it might seem complicated, the technique is actually quite straightforward.
How should I maintain my Tarot deck?
While rearranging the cards in the tarot deck is a good approach to purify and clear their energy, there are some circumstances in which you might wish to perform a more specialized ritual. If you’re just getting started with tarot, cleaning your deck can be an excellent place to start.
You might want to clean your tarot deck for a variety of reasons, including:
- beginning with a fresh deck
- readings for other people
- You think you need to recharge.
- Your card readings seem a touch “odd” or “disconnected”
- Your deck hasn’t been used recently.
- Your deck has been handled by others
- You think you’ve been utilizing your deck a lot. A LOT, especially for books with strong emotional content
Why should you cleanse or clear your tarot deck?
Tarot deck cleansing helps keep the energy flowing between you and your deck. Consider it as a little spiritual hygiene to maintain a strong and clear connection. It’s not necessary, but if you have any of the aforementioned symptoms, try a few of the energetic cleansing techniques listed below and note which ones seem to work the best for you.
How often should you cleanse your tarot deck?
This is another way of stating USE YOUR INTUITION: there are no hard and fast laws. Don’t stress if you don’t believe it is necessary for your deck. Alternately, if you like to cleanse them once per week or once per month, that’s great. If it feels appropriate to you, you can even place your favorite crystal on the balcony each night.
If you frequently place crystals on your deck and store it on an altar while not in use, you might not feel the need to cleanse it frequently because this quick ritual will likely be sufficient to keep your deck feeling nice.
There are numerous ways to cleanse your cards, just as there are numerous reasons why you might desire to do so.
Different ways to cleanse your tarot deck
Use holy smoke. Light a dried rosemary, lavender, cedar, sage, or palo santo cleansing wand until it begins to smoke. Hold the smoke a safe distance below the deck while holding the burning herbs in one hand and the deck in the other so that the smoke drifts upward onto the cards. Turn the deck so that the smoke covers it from all angles. Next, safely put your deck to the ground and put out the fire.
On the deck, set a selenite stone (or a black tourmaline or a transparent quartz). It works well to leave it like way for an hour, but I prefer to leave it overnight.
Set them on display during a new moon. The New Moon is energy of a blank slate; you can purify the deck by setting it on a window sill on a new moon night. At this moment, you can also make a brand-new intention for your deck.
Place the cards in a salty dish. A strong and stabilizing cleaner is salt. My preferred choice for a thorough cleansing is this. Allow it to sit anywhere from one to eight hours in a dry area.
Unorderly shuffle. Spread the cards out on the ground, then shuffle them around like a child playing in dirt. This method’s freedom and randomization serve as an excellent reset.
the shuffle and sort. Set up the deck in rows of seven cards across, commencing with the Major Arcana numbers 0 to 22. (see photo above). Next, arrange the cards, Ace through King, one for each suit, as follows: Swords, Pentacles, Cups, and Wands. View the deck in this configuration, then mix everything up (like the chaotic!) and shuffle it thoroughly.
Tarot cards are able to provide answers.
Think carefully about what you want to learn before consulting a professional or doing your own card reading. then take these actions:
Break your questions into smaller chunks
A thorough tarot reading typically consists of three cards or more. If you’re reading your own cards, divide your main inquiry into three or more more manageable components that, when combined, will result in a comprehensive response. Organize your spread in a logical or chronological order. In this manner, a road made of cards will allow you to “walk.” This method of thinking might also assist you in being more specific about what you want to learn if you’re consulting a tarot reader.
Think about the past and the future
The past/present/future spread, in which three cards are chosen to represent the past, present, and future, is a popular tarot spread. This fundamental pattern is the basis for many other spreads, with additional cards providing more details about your situation. For spreads like this, think about the actions you took to get to where you are today, what in your past may be the primary factor causing your current circumstance, and what actions you will need to take next. Finally, think about any further questions or ideas you may have once you get the answer to your initial query.
Make your questions specific
Whether you’re reading your own cards or consulting a professional reader, the more specific your inquiries are, the simpler it will be to respond to them. Tarot cards frequently have various, occasionally esoteric interpretations, making it challenging enough to connect them to your issue. It only adds another layer of complication to an already complex topic. Don’t inquire, for instance, “What are their genuine feelings and will that cause them to contact me again? Draw a card for each of the following questions instead: “What are their genuine sentiments for me? “Will they contact me again?” follows.
You can ask WHEN things will happen
Be not afraid of “when inquiries! It is acceptable to ask queries like, “How soon will they get back to me? More specific information can be found in your tarot reader or tarot book, but in general, each of the four suits corresponds to a particular era. Days or spring are represented by Wands, weeks or autumn by Swords, months or summer by Cups, and years or winter by Pentacles.
Think carefully before asking a yes or no question
Yes or no questions can be answered using tarot, but it’s not as simple as it would seem. Although the question structure is simple, it can be difficult to read the cards because none of them have a clear “yes” or “no” meaning. And to be honest, you’re probably already finding it difficult to analyze this circumstance, which is why you decided to consult the tarot! To get around this, choose two cards in advance, decide which one stands for “yes” (perhaps the Ace of Wands), and which one stands for “no” (maybe the Ten of Swords), then shuffle the two cards and pull one or the other.
It’s okay NOT to ask questions too
Please inquire if there is anything specific you need to know. However, there are occasions when you simply want to see what the cards will show since you are unsure of what you are looking for. If this is the case, tell your reader a little bit about yourself (including your relationship status, place of employment, family, and any urgent problems you are now facing) and state that you would want to be inspired or informed about your life as it is at this time.
What divorce-related tarot cards?
These could:
The Three of Swords is a traditional card for divorce, separation, and pain.
Simply by looking at the heart with the swords piercing it, you can tell that it is broken.
The Tower: The lightening card striking the house and the two figures erupting from it might be interpreted as a relationship breaking down or a broken home.
A person has been “thrown out.”
Five of Cups: Since five is a changeable number and the cups stand for emotional life, a change of heart is indicated.
Remember that even though this card indicates a loss, the two upright cards demonstrate that not all is lost.
Ten of Swords: The Ten of Swords represents defeat and could portend the dissolution of a marriage.
It’s also an indication that perhaps this is for the best because the sun is rising in the background.
Justice: Since dealing with the court system or legal issues might symbolize dealing with justice, this can also be a sign of divorce or separation.
Additional ideas
Empress, Emperor, Ten of Cups, Ten of Pentacles, and Devil are cards that, when interpreted with reversals, can also indicate a divorce (release from a binding situation).