Montfar claims that when we reflect on a Venus retrograde, we may experience a sense of rebirth, not only in our relationships, but also in our sense of self-worth and creativity. Venus retrograde, despite its intensity, urges us to learn from our mistakes and move on in a way that is truly beneficial to us.
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During a Venus retrograde, what happens?
When Mercury retrogrades, Venus (which is already rotating in the opposite direction of Earth) slows slower, making the effects of the retrograde more noticeable. Earth is now traveling faster than Venus. This makes the retrograde more obvious to earthlings, as we perceive ourselves to be moving quicker than we actually are.
When Venus goes retrograde in 2021, what signs will be affected?
The Most Affected by Venus Retrograde in 2021 Are These Three Zodiac Signs
- Cancer Symptoms by Zodiac Sign (June 21 – July 22)
- Virgo Zodiac Signs (August 23 to September 22)
- Zodiac Signs of Capricorn (December 22 to January 21)
When Venus is retrograde, what should you avoid doing?
Mercury retrogrades have become very popular astrology fodder on social media and elsewhere, so you’ve probably heard of them. Instead of disappointments, crossed wires (literally and figuratively), and false starts in communications (Mercury’s domain), challenges develop in Venus-ruled parts of our lives during Venus retrograde.
Love, relationships, beauty, aesthetics, the arts, and money are all connected with Venus.
Venus appears to stop (what astrologers call “stationing”) every eighteen months and then begins to move backwards (what we call “retrograde). Over the course of forty days, the planet retraces around 15 to 18 degrees of its route.
During this time, you will likely notice:
- There have been more breakups than usual (both private and public). Relationships that have been on the rocks for a long time frequently end in divorce.
- Feeling a little “blah” or dejected, especially if Venus is dominant in your chart. (Take note, Libra or Taurus ascendants!)
- Former lovers, old pals, and distant relatives make an appearance.
Here’s what NOT to do starting now:
- Don’t get married or make plans for a wedding. Venus regulates love and relationships, and no marriage will get off to a good start if Venus is trapped in the past and traveling backwards. (I’m referring to Jennifer Aniston’s marriage to Justin Theroux… NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO It’s not a good idea. Make a date change! If you only had an astrology companion. Just letting you know that I’m accessible!)
- Starting a new relationship is not a good idea. Starting a new relationship during a Venus retrograde normally doesn’t work out, so if you’re thinking about signing up for eHarmony, wait until Venus is moving properly. Be wary of any beau/belle who shows up during this time, since he/she will most likely not be as you expected.
- Don’t go out of your way to look your best outside of your regular routine. Have you ever wished to colour your hair red? Do you want to get a tattoo? Have you had any cosmetic surgery? Now is not the time to do it. Keep your normal hairdo and present outfit in place. Any major shopping expeditions or makeovers will be a waste of time. If you take risks during Venus’ retrograde, you’ll wake up with maroon (rather than red) hair, a Chinese tattoo on your neck that says goat milk instead of global peace, and a killer new wardrobe consisting of grey and beige items that are two sizes too big when the planet returns to direct. Do you remember the commercial about drunk driving when the bottles keep piling up on top of the car, blurring the road ahead? A Venus retrograde has this impact. Its direct movement is depressing. And just because you’re aware of it now doesn’t mean you’re immune to the effects of Venus retrograde. I can confirm that with my maroon hair and saggy beige-clothes photo. The same can be said about your home. Do not attempt to redecorate at this time, I repeat, do not attempt to renovate at this time!
- Don’t start any new business ventures. Venus is also in charge of your money affairs. When Mercury is retrograde, your perceptions are skewed, and you may make poor financial judgments based on emotions. During this phase, investments are frequently overvalued or inflate, and when Venus passes direct, they lose their value. A Venus retrograde is also known for causing worldwide economic anxiety, which can exacerbate the situation. (Isn’t it ironic that Canada legalized marijuana during a Venus retrograde? And, nearly quickly, what happened to its market value?)
- Avoid making large purchases, such as a car, boat, artwork, furniture, a home, or a company. You’ll go overboard, and your buy will backfire. It will either become a money pit, a huge headache, or you will grow to regret your decision. Your ability to appraise something’s worth or price deteriorates dramatically.
If you break these guidelines, believe me when I say you’ll wind up slapping your head and asking yourself, “What was I thinking?”